Just our take on it ...

beautyandbeast — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 17:09:47 +0000

As a couple of newbies in the lifestyle on the island, it only makes sense to us that we would treat people the way that we would want to be treated. We are all suppose to be responsible adults and not a bunch of giggling teenagers out behind the school/pub.

As we are all different people who come in all different shapes and sizes, it makes perfect sense that we are all looking for "our fit", but that should not mean that we ignore or are rude to others that we might chat with online or talk to at an event. Why not trying to be open and honest? If a date has been arranged and a time specified, keeping ones promise is a very important part of the lifestyle. This is a very small community on the island and it does not take long for word (good or bad) to spread. A simple misunderstanding can fester into something much bigger if left unresolved.

Discretion means the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information and the freedom to decide what should be done in a particular situation. To us, that means that we respect other peoples views and preferences and we can only hope that others will do the same.

We also believe that the only way to know if there is some chemistry which might lead to some sexy fun, we need to chat and or meet and see if there is something there. If there is, great .. is there isn't .. great! Just because there is no sexual attraction, that should not mean that there can not be a friendship.

Do you want your man to have Sexy Wear?

readytotry666 — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 21:25:30 +0000

Hi, Pam here from "readytotry666".

For 15 years now I have been watching my man getting sexier and evolving in his sex, for me and women in general, we wear all the right sexy things that get our men (and other men lol) hot and hard, we have pics and videos and all those things that make us all super sexy. And its required, its fun, its sexy and you look and feel hot!! So what about the guys here, I make my man shave (all over), dress sexy (as much as a man can) and look and smell great.

So what about about sexy underwear for your guys? does he wear cock rings or cock stimulators for both? Does he look HOT with it on? For guys there is a lot out there but they dont shop for it. Do you shop for them? I have my man wear see though underwear, leather underwear, underwear with zips and pouches, crotchless underwear (that is hot at parties) and he looks perfect in them.

So to the main blog here, what do you want your guys to wear to be sexy (I know they are sexy on their own) and stand out, for you to quietly say, look at him, he is mine, and you can borrow him (lol). I would love to hear from all, guys and girls and couples on this as we are really seeing a change.......

Thanks and have a great one!

Pam

Lifestyle Business Networking

deltadale — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 17:16:52 +0000

Is there any interest in starting a monthly business networking event?

Dale

All I Want For XXMas!

Club_Allure — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 23:26:29 +0000

December 10, 2011 - All I Want for XXmas Party

Dear Friends and Members,

This is a very special time of the year and we wish you and your family a very Joyous Holiday Season!

As some of you may have heard, the food banks are in dire need of help, so let's roll up our sleevesand do everything possible to lend a hand.

LIMITED TIME OFFER (offer expires Dec 5, 2011 midnight).

When you register and prepay online for the Dec 05 All I want for XXmas party you will receive a $10 reduction on the event as long as you bring a few non perishable food items.So the cost of the event is $80 plus tax and you'll be helping the food bank at the same time.

If you require further infomation please contact us direct at 778-789-Play (7529)

Now let's get ready and rock this party out!!

Warmest Regards,

Suzanne&Thomas.

Jingle your bells at Allure's "All I Want for Xmas" Party...

We get the party started with a special visit from Bad Santa and Mrs. Clause at his "north poll" as they hand out a little hanky spanky for those who've been naughty and holiday treats for those who've been nice.

And what's a sexy holiday party without mistletoe? Our mischievous little elves will be dangling the mistletoe throughout the club while you "deck the halls" amidst the festive holiday lights, sights and sounds to get you into the x-mas spirit.

Be sure to wear your sexiest holiday attire including sexy Santa outfits, fallen angels, naughty little elves and more to win great prizes (costumes not mandatory).www.cluballure.ca
778-789-Play (7529)

How to register

EXISTING OR PAST MEMBERS

If you're an existing or past member, login to your online account at anytime (note: even if your membership has expired or you only hold a basic membership, you can still login and register for the event months in advance if you like). Then visit our events calendar to complete your registration. Once you've registered for the free event, open your member profile and UPGRADE TO THE ONE WEEK PRESTIGE MEMBERSHP for ($90) for the event you want to attend. If you need assistance, feel free to call us at 778-789-PLAY (7529).

NEW MEMBERS

Simply join today and purchase the one week prestige membership for the event you would like to attend or, call us at 778-789-PLAY (7529) for further assistance.

you dont have to cook dinner on Tuesday

bcor — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 17:21:18 +0000

As you may or may not know... we are moving on the 29th, and are willing to help you get out of cooking. We are picking up the truck around noon on Tuesday. We dont care if we have to buy 6 or 8 large pizzas. It doesnt matter lol We dont have a lot of stuff to move...but we do need help as my Fiance' has been off work with back issues.

There will be more boxes than anything... and none of them weight more than 20 lbs...GUARANTEED lol

If you would like to come have pizza, and a meet and greet (vanilla) then msg us and we will give you the phone number and address.

None of the big stuff like furniture etc will be moved until after 3... so if you can come help with the boxes cool. If you cant make it till after 3 sometime... thats cool too as we have the truck all night. Of course it wont take all night roflmao.

Whether we have met you before or not... it doesnt matter lol come have some pizza.

Bcor

Oops! Was that my outside voice?

Blue_Magellan — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 23:17:58 +0000

So yes, baby did a bad, bad thing. And what I am about to share with you could get me in a little, shall we say, trouble of the naughty kind? Recently while attending training as a Host Couple, I had full access to Allure. What I was not expecting was to find the club in FULL swing (excuse me for the pun) of being decorated for Allure’s Haunting Halloween party on October 29th.

And what did I find? Well, let me say… cameras are STRICTLY forbidden. But I managed to break a few rules so you could have a tantalizing peek at what is shaping up to be one of the best Halloween parties ever.

So… what’s the scoop? This intrepid explorer went where no man and woman has gone before (ok, well that’s an exaggeration) and even was spooked to the point of screaming when surprised by a DISGUSTING, giant spider. After the initial, “I just screamed like a little girl” moment, I surrendered to the spirit of all things creepy. There is nothing like a little arachnophobia to get your blood racing!

If Allure was a woman, she would be in full hair and make-up. It’s AMAZING! I am sneaking in a couple of photos just as a tease (we all know I like that… but I digress) to the main event where even I can’t take you. Oh yes, ladies and gents… the “Inferno”, a veritable dungeon of electrifying delights. This area was strictly TOP SECRET and so I won’t tell you any more… only that it’s going to be quite the invigorating spot to flirt the night away. Allure’s Haunting Halloween is going to reveal some fantastic changes to the club I have been sworn to secrecy on. And in order to keep the suspense, I will stop right there. Rest assured there are fantastic new additions on the horizon.

From the creepy clowns to the ghostly goblins, there is a little fright for everyone. Hours have gone into making this one of the most over the top AMAZING venues for Halloween, think ” Potters” in Surrey crossed with a dance club. Add smoke machines, goblin brew and sexy couples and you have the makings of a SPOOKTACKULAR evening. Muahaha….

See? COMPLETELY carried away. (I already have my costume picked out, just saying. )

If you hear screaming, best not to come investigate! (We all know you WILL.)

G.

Dogging Days of Summer

gr8bedbuds — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 21:05:00 +0000

We had been lying naked on the couch watching TV desperately trying to beat the heat of summer. Too hot to take advantage of the situation and looking like a vanilla evening, C disappeared upstairs and returned shortly having had a cool shower and encouraged me to do the same mentioning maybe going for a walk on the Hydro path. Knowing what that could mean I quickly had my shower and found a dark shirt and shorts to wear. Commando style of course. I returned downstairs to C wearing her new summer dress we picked out last week for such an occasion; also dark in colour, knee length, and looking for mischief.

The evening was beautiful and the moon had followed the sun down an hour ago giving us the extra advantage of darkness. The air was warm, but it carried the sounds of a neighbourhood still enjoying the rest of what the evening had to offer. Not too far off, there were even the loud sounds of a movie being played outdoors at a local park. The night appeared too alive still for what we had in mind and it seemed this would be second failed attempt. We continued walking though and entered the Hydro path near our house. It was much darker now without the street lights pointing at us and, looking around, I found no other shadows walking the long path. Figuring it was safe and far enough from townhouse windows facing the path, I removed my shorts. C grabbed a hold of my rock hard cock and started pulling me further down the path like she had a hold of leash. Occasionally her fist would pump the length of my cock then return to pulling me along like a bad dog.

We reached a spot on the path lined with tall grass on one side and neighbouring houses on the other that were sparse and not well lit. Down at the far end of the path I could see shadows walking along the road past the other trail entrance and disappearing out of view. I removed my shirt, now completely naked, and C lowered the top of her dress exposing her breasts. My fingers found their way up her dress to find C already dripping wet, giving her pussy that silky smooth feeling like you are gliding on the surface of warm water.

C could no longer wait and wanted it bad, but I still wanted to continue walking. Not entirely sure if it was because I was enjoying the warm air on my body or wanting to push C further over the edge, but just at that moment two shadows from the road enter the path towards us. It seemed at the very moment I put my cloths back on the trail became alive. The two shadows drawing nearer. A house light came on and the owner came out calling for her cat with the beam of her flashlight cutting across the trail in her search. We walked slowly back towards home thinking that maybe it was just too early in the night. Even ran in to a guy walking his dog and a security guard do a perimeter check of a condo under construction.

We were ready to abandon our plans, but just as quickly had the night come alive with figures, the darkness seemed to swallow them up again leaving us to ourselves. The timing now felt right and not wanting to waste the moment, I removed my clothing again and got behind C already kneeing on the grass to the side of the path waiting for me with her dress pulled up. We had no trouble finding the perfect rhythm and began to care less and less about glancing at the end of the trail for new shadows and became consumed by the juxtaposition of feeling each other and the warm air carrying the sounds around us. Time around us seemed to freeze as our pleasure intensified and released together for what seemed eternal.

Slowly coming back to our surroundings, I got dressed and we walked back home with C’s hand down my shorts pulling my now slack leash of a dog well heeled.

Advice for the SM's - Single Males

Flirty2 — Sat, 28 May 2011 16:29:08 +0000

I know most of you probably don't need this advice, but take a look at it anyways, you might see something you can use. Yes, I know it's a long read...

This blog has a purpose. Single males are thought of by many in the lifestyle as a bane, the word "pariah" has even been tossed in our direction of late, that SMs are to be avoided and ignored. You (as a Single male) are inadvertently stepping into a stereo-type of sorts, dictated by the behaviors of the dumb-asses who tread before you. A stereo-type that only you can shed, by your words, and by your behavior. And judging by the stories I've heard from SO MANY in the lifestyle, and the actions of some that I HAVE PERSONALLY WITNESSED, who can blame 'em.

So, I will attempt to consolidate a list of DOs and DON'Ts for the well meaning SM to use as a guide, and save himself a faux-pas, or two.
I will start by saying that some of this advice has been plagerised from other posts.. other profiles, and other blogs.. look past that, it's the message that matters.. I welcome your comments... and please bare in mind, there are exceptions to every rule. Use your brain...

My very first piece of advice.. don't accept the title Dreaded Single Male (or DSM, to many)... it was not earned by the RESPECTFUL Single Male. Leave that title to it's own demise. If you accept that title without justification, they (everyone ELSE in the lifestyle) have no choice but to draw that conclusion about you. Don't just claim to be a gentleman on your profile.. BE A GENTLEMAN.... ALWAYS!!!! (Most of you know what that means whether you admit it or not).

Guys, the lifestyle, typically and for the most part, is NOT A CANDY STORE, and you're not a kid. Any couple or SF that invites you to be a part of their lifestyle experience, is, in all reality, giving you a gift. Again, respect that. It is an environment to be appreciated and respected, as well as the people in it. DO NOT de-humanize the people you interact with and bring them down to the level of nothing more than sexual objects. It won't be appreciated by most. If you have the mentality that Lifestylers are there for nothing more than your sexual gratification, you will miss out on 90% of the real rewards it has to offer.

IF YOU SAY YOU WILL MEET SOMEONE.. MEET THEM!! Don't stand them up... if you legitimately can't meet them after you set up a date, call them or write them BEFORE hand. It's just good MANNERS, and MOST of us had good mothers who taught us good MANNERS.
Every single person in the lifestyle is a human being, interact with them as you would a potential friend, and most of them will become your friend, to whatever degree.. I'm not saying that some of them aren't shallow too, don't get me wrong, but let them make that apparent to YOU, not the other way around, and deal with it appropriately.

When it comes to the Chat Room, as always, be respectful.. there are very few who appreciate the chatroom want-ad repetitively marquised like some over-sexed chat bot.
"Who want's a single male?"
"9 inches of man-meat, free for the taking!"
"Do you like single males? do you like SMs? well.. do ya?!"

Come on guys.. do you really think they need all that to know you're there? Instead, chat like your chatting with friends, and soon, you'll actually HAVE friends in the chatroom. You will garner POSITIVE attention with wit and intelligence.. instead of the reverse... (WARNING:.. easy on the sarcasm, it's hard to distinguish in chat and more often than not will come off as simply an asshole comment). Remember, most EXPECT stupidity from the SMs in the chatroom.. so I say, SURPRISE 'em!

I guarantee you, you will find yourself BLOCKED in chat by people you have never met or interacted with. It's their preference and their right to do so. It's usually because of the DSM stigma, so understand that, and move on. It's not necessary to make issue of it or attempt to get their attention to unblock you (unless you know them from prior experiences, and are sure it's a mistake), careful... you may not like the answer to your query.

1.Try coming out to some of the meet and greets
(faces that are seen are taken more serious, you will seem less of a online perv and more of a real swinger. Get to know couples and other singles, this will show them that your not just here trying to get free pussy.)

2. If a couple has (No single males) on there profile.....RESPECT IT!
(nothing is more disrespectful than a SM that does not respect a couples wishes, the reason why alot of couples have SM's blocked is because of the fact that they don't know how to respect a preference. Everyone has there own personal reasons for being on ITL, and all people have to do is respect it. )
re·spect·ed, re·spect·ing, re·spects
    To feel or show deferential regard for; esteem.
    To avoid violation of or interference with:
    To relate or refer to; concern.

3.Never approach a woman without speaking with her other half first.
(always speak to the male before approach the female side of the couple, make sure you have clearance. Unless the female comes to you, then 9 times out of 10 her and the better half have already discussed you. Be grateful and don't say anything stupid that will turn her off....lol!)

4.Let the woman choose you...
(Never and I repeat NEVER approach a female or couple asking to play...Being overly aggressive is a major turn off!! A woman knows if she wants you as soon as u walk into the room. Let her choose...)

Now on to the subject of the "face" you present"
There are hundreds of SMs on this website, and others, for the Single Female or Lifestyle Couple to choose from. So how do you get yourself noticed? Well, I'll tell ya..

-First and foremost.. post a pic, or pics if you will .. (YES!! pics are important !.)

--make your pics tasteful.. be creative.. actually think about the pose and what you want everyone to "see". I suggest you invent "themes" for a series or two of pics.. and experiment with cropping and effects (sepia, B&W, etc)

--the more pics, the better.. pics give you validity.. and give them insight.. as well as a means of determining attraction (duh) I promise you, your word that you are just gorgeous is not enough to pique someone's interest. And, no, you don't have to be GQ.. but I promise you, a dedication to personal fitness, AND HYGEINE, on any level other than ZERO, is appreciated by most.

--face pics are not a must for the public profile, so no worries there, but be prepared to produce a clean, well-focused one in private should they ask.

--lay off the cock shots! Save em for the private album, and ONLY IF THEY REQUEST THEM!!!

--Don't post old pics from back in your Glory days on the college sports team.. man that pisses people off!! Make your pics honest.. and CURRENT (within a year, two at the most.. ), and ACCURATE. You know if your pics are an accurate representation of yourself or not.
Now.. about those emails.... (Gawd, where do I start?)

1. I suggest you DO NOT use the "quickie" How You Doin line.. it will be ignored 98% of the time by 99% of the people you send it too.. it just doesn't convey sincerity or, for that matter, that you even want to take the time to write a decent message to someone.

2. When you do make the effort to send an actual hand-typed email, above all, BE RESPECTFUL .. don't belittle yourself with one or two Cro-magnon type phrases that imply you are the greatest thing to hit the Swing scene since disco and butterfly collars.
"I can fuck all night.. "
"I got what you need.. "
"I wanna put my cock in your ass"
Those type of emails are exactly what earned the title "Dreaded"..

3. Compose your email, each time, from scratch, and make it personal to the profile, and couple (or SF) you are addressing. Cut and paste is bullshit and not hard to sniff out.. the lifestyle is not as big as you may think.

4. Again, no cockshots unless they are specifically asked for.

5. If you are told that they/she is not interested in you, or they don't answer your email.. LEAVE IT ALONE!! Respect their preferences and move on.. yes, it's possible for them not to be just instantly SMITTEN with you, you had your chance to make a first impression... and that's all you get. Unsolicited emails just put you in an even brighter UNFAVORABLE light.

These tidbits are only suggestions... I do not claim to know everything about the lifestyle or how each gear turns in the machine. Be patient, take your time, and ENJOY your experiences. Show decorum and respect for EVERYONE and their boundaries/preferences/etc..
Positive and CONSTRUCTIVE comments are welcome on this blog.

How to say no thank you

pleaser6936 — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 08:02:34 +0000

Over the years we have asked to meet with couples, we have asked to meet
with singles, and we have been asked to meet with both couples and
singles...
Haven't we all

But then cums the question do we meet or don't we???

It
has been our experience that saying NO without even meeting can be an
easy way out for those that haven't made the decision to actually
participate in this lifestyle, on the other hand there may be no
attraction right from the first look.
Both are totally valid and acceptable, as we all progress at the pace that best suites us...

But what about when you've met and you're not interested?
Now what?
The meeting seemed to go well you all enjoyed the brief time together but there just wasn't enough to go to the next step...
How do we handle this next part? As the other party call's, txt's, and emails.

We've all had those emails that are just rude and disrespectful, but what has that done for us or for them?

This
lifestyle is about being open and honest, with our partner and with
those we choose to play with, so it's time to be honest...
Sorry
there is no attraction to go to the next step, we are glad that we were
able to enjoy a coffee or drink with you, but don't think we are willing
to go further, we wish you all the best in your journey....

So
even in rejecting their offer you are still being honest and being a
friend, after all things may change in the future and you may want to
take that next step latter on.

Now at the same time as you go
through this procedure realize that you to will receive a similar email
or txt at sometime on your own journey.

Don't be offended it's
not a personal attack, it's truth. If we all loved or were attracted to
everyone we met it could get very boring very fast, so enjoy the
journey.

The idea is to HAVE FUN, ENJOY YOUR JOURNEY, and make as
many friends as possible be happy and spread happiness to all you meet
so they can spread it to all they meet.

Thoughts on saying no

Steve and Linda

Sinsation Events Hawaiian Swing

MassageSwings — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 01:29:38 +0000

Spring is in the air! Let's celebrate with a Hawaiian theme. March 12 730pm till 2am

Grass skirts, loud shorts & leis will be the optimal dress code for the evening, topped by wild shirts and bikinis.

Join us as we take a vacation evening close to home.

We will be putting a touch of Hawaii throughout the event -- decorations, umbrella fruity drinks, and lots more.

We will have many surprises through out this event.

Dont miss this months event! As always you'll have a chance to relax in the hot tub, enjoy the Hot Rock Massages, play and more.

This promises to be an energetic evening of adult fun!!!!

Our
vision is to provide a safe, comfortable environment for people to
explore sexuality with others, often with an educational component, e.g.
erotic massage.

There will never be any pressure and you are always in control.

If
you and your partner are secure in your relationship and looking for to
explore, this is an excellent place to start. Most new couples stick to
themselves to begin with, which is recommended. Just touching and
kissing your partner in front of others is a major step. You're also
welcome to go into one of the private rooms and just enjoy each other in
a different setting.

It would be great if everyone brought
their own favorite toys to join in the play events throughout the
evening. You won't want to be left out of the fun.

Sinsationevents.com

More thoughts

PassionateCyn — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 04:40:36 +0000

I am honored to meet so many amazing women through doing Passion Parties. And one commonality seems to be consistently present:sex makes us all happy.

I would go on a limb and say that no one - NO ONE has hit their ceiling of the ultimate experince. There is always room for improvement. ALWAYS.

I am selective on who I share IntoTheLifestyle.com with professionally. And yet I don't doubt for a second that EVERYONE benefits from sex positivity. I know I am not alone in knowing people that 'ought' to tap into their wildside a little more. We all know couples that would love it once they took the leap. I don't even mean full-on, I think there are so many brilliant levels of inspiration to be had within the lifestyle.

I have been thinking about ways to help market this site to broaden the membership. Plus to help offer some stimulation to so many more couples.

Think back to the beginning....what were your initial thoughts and fears. What would have made your experince as you entered intothelifestyle, a more welcoming one?

I think once people realize it's on their terms and no one elses.That as a couple they can open lines of communication, and really think about what they like. Most people don't realize their likes or dislikes until they try them (or try them twice.)

I would love to hear what you all think...........

Sex Positive Lifestyle

PassionateCyn — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 02:12:17 +0000

I have been giving much thought lately to what the lifestyle means to me. I am very curious to hear from each of you on your perspective and feelings surrounding lifestyle, and life as a lifestyler.

I believe people in the lifestyle are hands down, well....elite.

We feel better than most people, we smile more, and we are open in more ways than one. All around, we seem to have a magnetic edge that people are drawn to. I can spot fellow lifestylers in every day life. When you meet that random stranger in Starbucks because they not only looked you in the eye, but also strike up conversation, oh yes, they are in the lifestyle or need to be. (good time to slip them an itl card, or just ask their user-name.) I have started referring to ITL as a site for sexually positive people. Leaves it open to much more intrigue. Plus since doing that I have attracted many more people to the site.

We lifestylers are the life of most parties, we make the effort to mingle at parties where we don't know anybody. We see line-ups as opportunities to meet others. Because we all know too many
people that are not only shy, but simply non-social. They lack
confidence, and therefore miss out on many connections in daily life.They envy our busy fun filled lives and can't figure out what they are doing wrong. Oh if we could only teach our ways....lol. But seriously, I think that if more couples joined the site, opened communication and found what worked for them, the world would be a happier place. The lifestyle is not scary.....it's for everyone.

Since entering the 'lifestyle' I can say I have transformed socially. I have
so much confidence, and I am not afraid to strike up conversations with
anyone anywhere.

People who are happy sexually, are happy all around. Sex is a domino effect that spills into all areas of our lives. We all know miserable vanillas who are too afraid to ask for what they really want in life. So there wildest fantasies live in a box, on a shelf, in the back of the forgotten closet. They are on autopilot living a stressful life with no joy. I love people that realize that everything is a choice - ALL of it. Every moment of your life is your choice.

I choose to share the site to A LOT of people, mainly because I see how beneficial it is.

I choose Happy - Who's with me? I also share my happiness, since sharing is, caring

Too much of a good thing is ....?

pgpoco — Mon, 10 May 2010 21:03:37 +0000

They say……Too much of a good thing is….?

Well in the Lifestyle here in Vancouver how many it To Many?

A fast count of Lifestyle Clubs or Groups in the Vancouver area I get EIGHT!....I am sure there are more and more that are going to try.

Now like anything in life when it comes to business, you either have to be the best or you are going to get clobbered out of business, or at the very least never really flourish.

Looking at the numbers of the last two parties we attended, both at different clubs, one has to wonder why with such a small base here in Vancouver, (Yes I know people come from outside the Vancouver area), how so many clubs think they can survive and flourish. Both of the parties were not full, or even close to it.

Holding more than one party on same night or back to back one would think this would spread the membership to lower then preferred numbers for all owners of the clubs, and not providing the best bang for ones buck.

I know this past weekend the party we attended we saw several of the regulars from the other local club we tend to go to, yet the other club now has to lower prices to fill the events, and yet the one we attended was not full as well.

While competition is supposed to be a good thing….in this case……not so sure?

Hosting multiple parties on the same weekend…I would think is cutting into all the owners bottom line and in some ways taking away from their membership by not being able to host the best possible event.

One does have to give credit to the owners of all the clubs for taking the time and money to set them up for us to enjoy, I just hope that they all can grow and flourish making a better Lifestyle community for all.

Just my rant for a Monday.

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Just our take on it ...

Do you want your man to have Sexy Wear?

Lifestyle Business Networking

All I Want For XXMas!

December 10, 2011 - All I Want for XXmas Party

How to register

you dont have to cook dinner on Tuesday

Oops! Was that my outside voice?

Dogging Days of Summer

Advice for the SM's - Single Males

How to say no thank you

Sinsation Events Hawaiian Swing

More thoughts

Sex Positive Lifestyle

Too much of a good thing is ....?